First and foremost, I am married, I have a family and by no means am I looking to change that. I’m not going to be your girlfriend, this only about two consenting adults getting together for some NSA fun.
If things go well, we might be able to get together again, who knows. i am both drug & disease free and you must be as well. Also, I have had my tubes tied, so there is no worries about any oopsies. You hosting at your place may be an option, but that will be at my discretion.
Bottom line, I have to feel safe with where I am going.